Saturday, October 16, 2010

The Candle and Love!


Its amazing that every process in life has a simulation. Have you ever thought of the candle and a love life? Well, if you haven’t, now is the time to think about it. The process of making a candle involves three stages: getting your wax; Melting the wax in very hot temperature; Pouring out the melted wax in a mould; and finally allowing it to cool. Alas! You have your candle. Little wonders what manner of coincidence! What makes lovers want to have their ROMANTIC meals over the candle light? CANDLE LIGHT DINNER they call it. Would this be because of the connection between the candle and the act of being in love?
BASIC CANDLE-MAKING STEPSMaking candles is fun and relaxing. While it does give you the chance to be creative, there are some basic candle-making steps you should follow to make the process flow well. Nothing is more disappointing than to discover that your candles didn’t form properly. Safety is very important in candle making. Many people make candles in their own kitchen. You will want to have a fire extinguisher nearby as well as a non-slip mat placed in front of your stove. Always wear old clothing and long sleeves. However, make sure your sleeves do not dangle where they can fall into the hot wax.
Since you will have to get the candle wax hot to melt completely, there is a risk of severe burns. You also have the risk of starting a fire. It is important to clean up all spilled wax immediately. It won’t take long for it to harden, thus becoming very slippery. The dyes and scents used in candle making can leave stains.

SETTING UP THE WORK AREA!The best way to set up your work area for candle making is to divide it into three specific work stations for preparation, the melting process, and the cooling process. The preparation area doesn’t need to be large, just a flat surface that is well-organized. To make the process flow best, use a counter in close proximity to the stove. You will want to keep your utensils, thermometer, additives, and other candle making supplies in this area. It is a good idea to know what types of candles you will be making before hand so that you have all the necessary items ready to go.
MELTING THE WAX!Your melting work station will likely be the stove. It is necessary to use a double boiler to melt the wax to a temperature that is hot enough without scorching it. The molecular structure of the wax can be damaged if the direct heat to it is too much. This means your candles won’t form well or hold up well when they are used. Wax comes in sheets or blocks, which will need to chip off in chunks to melt. A hammer and flat head screwdriver work well for this.
Chipping wax should be done in the preparation stage so that you can simply add more pieces throughout the melting process. You will want to weigh each piece of wax before you add it to the pot for melting. This will help you determine how much scent and dye to add,  which is based on weight.
THE COOLING STATION!The cooling station needs to be a level area such as a countertop or table. The wax must cool for several hours so this area needs to be able to withstand high temperatures as well as remain undisturbed for long periods of time. The area should not be directly in the path of sunlight or heating/cooling systems. If it is, the candles will not set properly. If you plan to use molds for your candles, have them set up in the cooling area while the wax is melting. Once it has melted, you will need to pour it immediately into the molds. To prevent a mess from spills, use an old cookie sheet for the molds to rest on.
The candle making process will run smoothly and efficiently if you follow these tips for establishing three work stations. While the process should be fun, it is important that you understand the dangers of candle making, including burns and fires. Taking the proper safety precautions will help ensure the creation of candles in your home as a great way to spend your time.
In life, we have millions of individuals, walking across the surface of the earth, from all the Cardinal points, let’s call them the WAX! Just like the candle wax, you never know what wax you would be melted with till the MAKER of the candle, which happens to be God in our own case adds you to the preparation. That is when we get in contact with people. Once we are in contact, the process starts. The parties gets heated up if it is the genuine kind of love, and then the MELTING of the Wax begins. The process takes a long time to liquefy the wax and get it ready for the next phase. But every care needs to be taken to ensure that we do not apply so much heat such as not to alter the molecular formula of the wax, that is, not bragging, showing off, lying and doing all sort, all because we are trying to make it work. As the heat would affect the molecular structure of the wax, so would this affect the building of a relationship as it would not form well, because it is built on falsehood and material!
If you ask me, the melting process seems to be the most important process in the making of the candle, as all the molecules are mixed up and we try not to mess up the structure. So it is in the love life, the life of the two parties are interwoven and saving themselves the bragging, ego, lying , show off and all sort, they keep the shape of the love and would not let it fall apart.In showing affection, we pour out our love and this is the solidifying state where the two become one! No wonder even the Holy Book makes us understand that LOVE IS PATIENT! The cooling process takes a long time, and after this process we are set to make the relationship work! Our candle is set!
 The irony of it all is in the lighting of the candle, there are two ways to it, you either have a candle that burns and lasts long or one that melts away easily. A good candle would last long and it burns anyone that touches the flame, but, the bad one, even though it would burn anyone that touches the flame, it would melt away easily.
If you can lay your hand on a candle, take a good look at the way the candle burns when set out in a very windy environment, the naked flame dances and tilts towards the direction the wind blows, trying so hard not to go off! But when the breeze gets stronger than it can take, it goes off, then, try to light the same candle in an area where the wind is blowing very gently and calmly, the flame dances fine and the area is bright. Loving is when your candle is lit, the candle light would stay on for as long as possible if the making process is well done and the candle is lit in an environment that is not so windy to put it off. Hence, true love blossoms with a proper build up process and keeping it away from wind, the wind is bound to come, these are times when we argue and fight, backbiting from friends, keeping secrets, and exposing ourselves to the prying eyes of the Jealous.
Friends, let us obey the greatest law. Love thy neighbor as thy self. That is the greatest commandment of all. LOVE! So,turn to your neighbor and say, God loves you so do I.
Lets make candles!

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The Candle and Love!


Lets make candles


Saturday, October 9, 2010

ma dedication to Dagrin

ma dedication to Dagrin

I always wish I could sing 
And finally call ma self d prince 
But he finally became the prince 
When he stepped in to sing 
I thot he was gonna win 
Cos he brought it all in 
Mixing it up as he sings 
He gave ginger plenty of gin 
Making all the ladies grin 
Cos it was all in his gene 
Now he will never get to sing 
When he finally gets to win 
As he has exited the scene 
We have lost our dear grin 
And now I feel so green 
Not from 'envying' 
But from 'grieving' 
Grin has left this world of sin 
Tho we still love to hear him sing 
In a manner we have never seen 
Wow!This is damn too mean 
Feeling thorns beneath my skin 
For a shinning star I've never seen 
Now that shinning star has been dimmed 
I will never see him sing 
Gone to where we've never been 
He was always shinning on the scenes 
Whenever he gets the chance to sing 
Not because he wears the blings 
Which makes us blink when he sings 
But for the mastery when he sings 
Puts mystery in our being 
But we'll always hear you sing 
In our souls and our being 
Rest in peace Barack O'grin! 

Popoola Olamilekan 
alekibaba '10

NYSC (CURSE OR BLESSING)

NYSC (CURSE OR BLESSING)

Service to others is a very great task
But, a very rewarding thing to do
Service to one’s country is a more difficult task
Yet so honourable to carry out
Service to a country like Nigeria is the most difficult
You would agree with me
Yet, it’s got its own reward
In most cases
We get to pack few of our belongings
Travel long hours in uncomfortable vehicles
To a destination
Which in most cases we have never been to
Meet people we’ve never met
Cultures we have never practised
Traditions we only read in the books
And, in most cases
Live with people we do not even understand
There way of life
Or the language they speak
Yet, for the honour
For the rewards
We still serve our fatherland
Not minding the distance
Nor the differences in the environment we’re leaving
And the new one we’re embracing
Acclimatizing to the new weather
Is often a great task
Eating the food we’ve never tasted
Drinking from streams where they wash
All because we were posted to a village
Where there is no civilisation
Not even a pole of electricity
Leaving our lovely LG media air conditioner
For a pigeon-hole village window
Laying ma head on the uncomfortable wrap made from my clothes
All in the name of “service to our country”
Despite all this
We were still slain for a war we knew nothing about
Serving our fatherland!

Prince Popoola Olamilekan
For the love of our fatherland

"FWENDS"

"FWENDS"

Born with a silver spoon 
Raised in the way of the royals 
Day in, day out 
He was thought in the ways of the royals 
Many admired his way of life 
Many would want to live the kind of life he does 
But are not in any way near having it 
He grew up in the way of the royals 
Nurtured in the way of the kings 
Catered for in the way of the presidents 
But, he was not happy 
Never happy for a minute 
Perhaps he wasn’t as rich as would love to be 
Or he was too rich to be; 
The best instrumentalists play in his chambers 
The best comedians are his best friends 
The greatest actors act on his stage 
All to make his life a perfect one 
Yet, he is in gloom 
He tried so hard to be happy 
All won’t just work out 
But I 
With what he considered a rag 
Nothing but a commoner 
Still is the happiest man on earth 
Because I have friend 
A friend is worth all you could ever want 
A friend is worth a million 
A friend like you is valueless 



true friends

Ma Write up for Jos Killings

Ma Write up for Jos Killings

We played with the beach sand 
Building castles with the sand 
Throwing shells in the sea waves 
And waiting impatiently 
Thinking we’d see them wash back ashore 
We hold hands and dare the waves 
Took the most popular drinks together 
“Coca-cola” 
Competing for the fastest 
Squeezing the bottles foolishly 
Expecting more drops of it 
We share good laughs 
Even when we say stupid things 
Singing the anthem backwards 
We sat side by side thru out the period in school 
Always putting each other thru 
Hung out at the cafeteria 
Eating from the same plate 
Keeping a very straight face 
While we analyze the beautiful ones 
Whom you think are yet to be born 
We share our pains 
Thus, make it half 
Having each other’s shoulder to cry on 
On very sad days 
We stay in touch with the nature 
Staring at the stars 
And pouring out our grief 
Until sleep catches up with us 
And the next day 
We are happy again 
We wear the same thing 
To Undies 
I remember the batman undies we secretly bought 
For we were ashamed as adults 
We are not Siamese 
Nor twins in any form 
We are not faggots 
Not from the same family 
For I was born with a very rough plastic spoon 
While he with a silver 
We’re brothers from another mother 
We’re true friends! 
We always write together 
Until last week!!! 

Dedicated to victims of Jos killings 

Prince Popoola Olamilekan© 


dedication to the victims of this brutal killings.

Mumbai and Zimbabwe

Mumbai and Zimbabwe

Silent, yet so powerful
Abstract, yet with great depth of feeling
So firm a grip
On a sweep, many weep
Many are let down
Hearts are broken
Ties are broken
Friendships destroyed
But, it is our eternal right
Only to make life balance!
Dreams are shattered
Hopes are drowned
Talents are taken away
Empires are collapsed
Aspirations are clouded
Yet, it is inevitable
Love becomes but a word
Friends become lonely
Couples become single
Lovers become deserted
Yet, no one can run
Its arms are so long
They can’t be cut short
Researchers were caught halfway
Looking for a path around it
Only to become a victim
Oh! Death, how I wish we can do without you!

Dedicated to Mumbai Killings and Zimbabweans Cholera breakout victims.


Prince Popoola Olamilekan©